But help is at hand thanks to a new app which teaches parents and teenagers negotiating skills for use in arguments at home. The
‘Close My Deal’ app gives parents useful hints on how to approach their
children and gives teenagers suggestions on how to compromise.
It
works by posing scenarios which could spark an argument, and prompts
the user to choose from a range of answers to the problem. It then scores users on their choice and gives tips on how to improve their negotiating style. Both
sides can also get ideas for ‘concessions’ they can make to secure a
deal, for example the teenager offering to unload the dishwasher every
night or go without pocket money for a month.
Creator
Clive Rich, 52, a business negotiator, said: ‘In my experience,
negotiating with a stubborn teenager is every bit as difficult as trying
to win a boardroom deal.’
As
part of the app users can choose from a range of answers before being
scored and then get feedback on how to tackle each situation and improve
their negotiation style. Both sides can also get tips on the ‘concessions’ they can make to secure a deal. They
include the teenager offering to unload the dishwasher every night or
go without pocket money for a month, or parents agreeing to pay for
concert tickets if a teenager attends an elderly relative’s birthday
party.
The web app also gives users an insight into their personal ‘negotiating style’. By
completing the profiler section users can find out if they
subconsciously use demanding or aggressive behaviour during negotiations
and receive instructions on how to adapt their approach. After
a 25-year career brokering multi-billion corporate deals Mr Rich now
hopes his new app – launched this week – will eventually bring an end to
the family squabbles.
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